Confusable words

sympathy vs empathy: what's the difference?

sympathy
noun
vs
empathy
noun
? ?

Sympathy and empathy both involve caring about someone else's pain, but one is feeling for them and the other is feeling with them.

Sympathy

noun

Sympathy is feeling sorry for someone, caring about their situation from the outside.

  • I have great sympathy for what she's going through.
  • He sent a card expressing his sympathy after the loss.

Empathy

noun

Empathy is imagining and sharing what someone else is feeling, as if you were experiencing it yourself.

  • Good therapists show real empathy for their clients.
  • It's easier to have empathy for someone once you've faced the same problem.

Side by side

sympathy empathy
Position Feeling FOR someone, from outside Feeling WITH someone, as if inside
Requires shared experience? Not necessarily Often helps, but not required
Simple test "I feel sorry for you" is sympathy "I understand exactly how you feel" is empathy

Quick rule

Sympathy is caring from the outside. Empathy is understanding from the inside, as if you were in their shoes.

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